Capt. Nichola Goddard
Today we mourn the loss of Capt. Nichola Goddard. She has been in Afghanistan with our Canadian forces trying to help people have a more peaceful and democratic society.
Two exerpts from Nichola's letters home provide a fitting tribute.
1) This exerpt is taken from the end of a letter describing her visit to a small Afghan village.
"the interpreter came up and had a 2-3 minute conversation in Pashtu with the 5 men who were watching me. Then he turned to me and said, 'Please excuse their staring. They are just very surprised that you are a woman working with all of these men. I have told them that you climbed over the mountain with us with your heavy bag and that you had no problems. [her bag weighed about 100 lbs] They think that you must be very strong. I explained to them that you are just like the men, and that you can do everything that they can do the same as them.' It was perhaps the greatest statement of equality that I have ever heard - and it was given by a Pakistani raised, Afghan male in the middle of an Afghan village that is only accessible by a 5 km walk up a mountain. It just goes to show that anything is possible and that stereotypes are often completely wrong."
2) This second exerpt is a quote from Theodore Roosevelt which came at the end of a second letter, this one written March 4, 2006
"It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how a strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly...who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring so greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who have never known neither victory or defeat."
Nichola was a person who strove valiantly. I am sure her impact in Afghanistan and in Canada will be large.
My condolences to Nichola's husband Jason and to other family and friends.




















